Having Better Conversations

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Anyone can have conversations with others. It doesn't take much to walk up to someone and open your mouth. It's easy to talk about the weather, or what you've been up to. But having a great, inspiring conversation takes a lot more than just that. To have a worth-while conversation with someone, one that leaves you feeling fulfilled, you need to learn to listen. 

You shouldn't always talk about yourself, and for many people that can be the hardest part. Learning to listen isn't easy for everyone. For a long time, I admit that I talked too much. Perhaps it was because I was young and hadn't acquired my listening skills yet, but I couldn't stand having to pause to let others speak. I had too much to talk about; ideas have always come to my mind randomly and quickly, even today. Over time though, I've learned to repress my need to speak. I listen more than I speak; I have found listening more interesting and educational. I have learned so many new and interesting things from just listening. Listening has helped me learn how to see both sides to every story and opinion. It has opened my eyes and mind to being more accepting. 

Check out the video 10 Ways to Have a Conversation to learn how to have better conversations with others.

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